The 7 Most Expensive Mistakes People Make in the First 30 Days of Divorce

Twenty-five years as a divorce attorney. Over 2,000 cases. There is no fact pattern in divorce I haven't seen, no judge style I haven't argued in front of, no strategy I haven't deployed or defended against.

Then I became a litigant in my own high-conflict divorce — the same kind of case I'd built my practice around. Going through the process I'd been handling for two decades changed what I know about it in ways no amount of practice could.

I closed my firm and now work as a divorce consultant. I'm not anyone's attorney in this work. I'm the person who has seen this from every side — and tells people what they actually need to hear.

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• The most expensive mistake people make in the first 30 days — and how to recognize it before you make it
• The three questions to ask any divorce attorney before you hire them
• Why fighting to win costs more than fighting to be done
• The financial blind spot that catches even sophisticated people off guard
• The mistake you can never recover from and what to do instead
• The other two are the ones I wish someone had told me on Day 1 of my own divorce. They're in the guide.

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